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I came across a brief reflection on grief the other day and wrote it down because I wanted to share it with you.

« Grief is neither a disorder nor a healing process; it is a sign of health itself, a whole and natural gesture of love. Nor must we see grief as a step towards something better. No matter how much it hurts - and it may be the greatest pain in life - grief can be an end in itself, a pure expression of love. » Gerald May

Much love Tara ❤️

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I read your letter this morning in Heather's substack. And have read all of these posts. I don't think I have cried this much in a long time. My heart goes out to you. I cannot imagine. It hurts my chest. I have no soothing words for you, but know that I am thinking of you when I hug my kids close. I am so sorry.

The only reason I still believe in hell is because that helps me in my rage against the evil that is in the world at the moment being perpetrated against us. That those people will have to answer to someone eventually, even if it isn't now, and no amount of ... "but I am just following orders" will help them in the end.

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